We always tend to save the best for birthdays and deathdays. The first one is a cause for celebration, the latter is a cause for regret – we always save the best for a second chance that will never see dawn. 

“Death is not the snuffing out of a candle…
It is the putting out of a [...]

This 1st February, light a candle in loving memory of Tian Leng. He won’t be celebrating 22 years of life, but we will pay respect to his 21 years of joy and laughter, of sadness and bitterness, of sorrow and fear, of pain and gain, of friendship and brotherhood.
 
Light a candle of love and respect [...]

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The irony: She complains that he’s taking up too much space. The house – is his.  
His solution: He controls the remote. Everything else, whatever!

The happy ending: She throws out his toiletries. They are now sharing. He gets to keep the mouthwash.
 Ah…life is beautiful, isn’t it? Makes you wonder sometimes…..

I got a visit from Tian Leng. Don’t remember much of the beginning. Just the part where his handphone rang. It was a call from him saying that he was home.
I was upstairs, in my room. So, I quickly ran down the stairs and stopped midway. There he was, standing by the door with tears [...]

When I was a little girl, I dreamt a little dream. A little illusive dream of tinkerbells and fairies, of magic wands and princess in a little kingdom of eternal happiness. Then as I grew up and grew out of fairytale bliss, I began dreaming a little bigger dream. Then little bigger dream became bigger dreams. [...]

“Do you ever wonder if we make the moments in our lives or if the moments in our lives make us?”
2007 was a year of many milestones and one big tragedy. Ironically, despite the darkness of death that shadowed upon the family in the tragic month of December, this new year celebration to usher in the year of 2008 [...]