Sex with an ex can be depressing. If it’s good you can’t get it anymore, if it’s bad you just had sex with an ex.

-  Carrie Bradshaw  -

A visit to The Spa & Beauty Med at The Saujana is sure to be a memorable experience this February with their special Valentine’s Day and Lunar New Year promotion.

I’ve visited The Spa once since it’s opening in December and I was blown away by this hidden gem. Indulge in The Spa’s signature treatment for two persons which includes refreshment on arrival, foot polish, ancient Balinese massage followed by 30-minute floral bath.  All these for only RM380 nett per couple throughout the month of February.

For more details, you can check out their newly launched website http://www.thespaandmedbeauty.com/

Prop List:

• All the items you need for a basic facial such as facial cleanser, face scrub, facial mask and moisturiser
• Massage oil
• Face towel and cotton pads
• Facial sponge and a small wash basin
• Music
• Scented candles

Tricks & Treats:

Get him to lie down on the bed with a pillow to support his head for added height. Be sure to place a towel over the pillow to protect it from getting wet.

Start off by giving him a basic cleansing of the face and neck. Men like to be nurtured and pampered, and just a simple gesture like this will make him feel appreciated and aroused by your tender loving care.

After that, give him a shoulder massage. Areas such as the neck, scalp and behind the earlobes are highly sensitive spots. Finish off with a mask, cover his eyes with moist cotton pads, and tell him to relax.

Climb on top of him, sit on his hip area. Then massage from his stomach area upwards towards his chest. Place your upper body weight onto your hands as you move them upwards and adjust accordingly. Undress his bottom half, but leave your panties on. Press down your hip area and straddle him. As he’s getting more and more anxious, tell him that you can’t rush, and take you time to bring him to climax.

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Top 10 Songs for Lap Dance

Prop List:

• Chair
• Medic lingerie
• Lap dance music

First, we have got to say this. We simply loveeeee the lingerie selections from Love Potion Shop! This siren red medic costume will definitely raise the heat before you even begin your sexy dance moves.

Medic Kitten is just a suggested fantasy theme; works well with police woman, sexy maid or lacy lingerie as well. Wear heels to accentuate your legs.

Tricks & Treats:

In their book, The Stripper’s Guide to Looking Great Naked, Jennifer Axen and Leigh Phillips said, “There is no such thing as a shy stripper.”

“Most strippers exude a refreshing comfort with their bodies. We asked one performer, who was particularly radiant, how she developed her sensual grace. She replied, “Easy. When I look sexy, I feel sexy.”"

We can’t teach you how to dance, because dancing is a form of self expression that you can’t study by reading. As spontaneous as you want it to be for your boyfriend, lap dancing takes a little bit of practice in your own privacy. So, practice on your own first in front of a mirror to know what works for you so that you’ll feel comfortable and confident when you are doing it for real.

Place him on a chair.  Give him some rules such as ’strictly no touching’ or tease him with some naughty role play phrases. Start from the opposite end of the room then move towards him as you dance. You can start fully dressed followed with a striptease or you can start in your desired costume or lingerie. The wall is also a good prop for you to start. Just take lessons from Christina Milian’s Dip it Low MTV.

Once you are close enough to his body, grind and tease him with your butt but don’t sit on him. Work your upper body with slow, exotic moves. Move your chest/breasts close enough to his frontage then pull back. Learn the more graphic details from a preview of Carmen Electra’s Aerobic Striptease video collection on You Tube or get the original from Amazon.

Whisper into his ears and tell him to tip you if he wants more. Arouse and tease. Then once you see that he can’t hold back anymore, straddle him, then swing your hair and arch your body to the back, then swing back up again. Then move your hips so close that it squeezes tight to his body.

Most importantly, you gotta feel sexy, enjoy yourself and maintain eye contact from start to end.

It’s also important to pick the right song that feels most natural to you so you won’t look clumsy or awkward dancing to it. Click here for Top 10 suggested songs for lap dance.

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1: Sex (I’m a) by Lovage

2: Buttons by Pussycat Dolls

3: Dip It Low by Christina Milian

4: Breathe on Me by Britney Spears

5: Wait the Whisper Song by Ying Yang Twins

6: I’m a Slave for You by Britney Spears

7: Naughty Girl by Beyonce Knowles

8: Chocolate by Kylie Minogue

9: Tempo Slow by R Kelly

10: Drop it Like it’s Hot by Snoop Dogg ft Pharrell

…but this is just one of them *wink*

Prop List:

• Ice-cream cones
• Ice-cream in tubs

I hope my fellow sisters will not blame me for sharing our little secret. I know of girl friends who like to use the ice-cream teaser trick on men. Oh, don’t give me that look. We must have used that trick at least once in our life! You know, the subtle intentional sultry lick on an innocent sundae cone and many more ice-cream licking tricks up our sleeves.

Some have taken it a step further into the bedroom, but for today, the cone will be the ’leading’ tool for our bedroom indulgence.

Tricks & Treats:

Place an empty cone upside down onto the penis. Nibble the top of the cone and move your way down, teasing him every once in a while with quick light touches on the tip of his foreskin. Then top up your guilty pleasure with a small scoop of your favourite ice-cream into the cone and enjoy!

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Prop List:

• A bottle of baby oil/olive oil
• Essential oil
• A good movie
• Washable throw rugs/old towels

After dinner, enjoy a movie night over wine and some light nibbles within the comforts of your home. Place washable throw rugs on the floor and some old towels over them. Get a really good love movie or romantic comedy. Heat up the oil, and mix in some essential oil. Relax and enjoy your little ‘we’ time.

Tricks & Treats:

While you’re watching your movie, massage each other  with the lightly heated oil. Go slow. You don’t want to do too much after a hard day’s work. The objective is to sensually connect with your partner and have a good conversation. Once you’ve got oil all over your body, get him to slide on top of you very slowly, sliding his crotch over the creases of your sensitive spots. Return the favour.

Remember to wipe/wash off the oil before you slip in the condom.

If you have the time, prepare some strawberries and seedless grapes. Feed each other with the fruits before you move on to massage.

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Prop List:

• Lubricant
• A string of pearls
• New set of lingerie
• Music CD
• Scented candles

Arouse his sexual appetite when he’s in the office on a mid day Monday. Set the tone by sending your guy flirtatious text messages with a hint of naughty sexual innuendos.

Get home early from work and set the mood. Draw the curtains, set up scented candles. Play some music. We love Janet Seidel’s Comme Ci, Comme Ca album from the Midnight Jazz Lounge collection.

Get into your new naughty set of lingerie. We recommend Gangster Girl collection from Youumi. Cover up with a well cut office suit and your set of pearl necklace. He’ll be in for a short disappointment which will quickly disappear once he rips you off your boring dark suit.

Tricks & Treats:

Attitude and confidence are two of the most important factors to make this work. Be in charge, on top and in control.

Start with a shallow BJ. Bring out the lubricant and take off the pearl necklace you are wearing. Wrap the pearls around the top of penis, slowly bringing it down in gentle movement. Adjust the intensity as you stroke them up and down, giving him the best stimulation experience.  Then, top it up with an intense fellatio while continuing to stroke with the pearls.

He’ll never ever see you in the same light again the next time he sees you in your office attire, or when you’re wearing the set of pearl necklace.

Advanced Art of Forbidden Pleasure:

We do not recommend this unless you are assured that your necklace is 100% safe and nickel free. Carefully insert the pearls one at a time. Ask him to give you a cunnilingus, and as you are about to hit orgasm, get him to slowly pull out the pearls. The multiple sensations will be mind-blowing!

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We figured it’s the best way to get your attention *wicked grin*

Since we are all going to countdown anyway, why not countdown with 5 days of orgasm?

Afterall, if we are rolling into the new year with a whole new list of resolutions, a good and healthy sex life should be on that list amongst your other goals to conquer the world.

Hei, we may as well start off with a big loud moan, oops, we mean “bang”…

… a big loud bang and a healthy glow to boast!

Stay tuned for daily creative bedroom ideas.

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The female species are known to have a myriad of days: Fat days, Ugly days and yes, Horny Days included! Hence, a vibrator could have saved an emergency situation, avoided one-night stands or even sexual relapses with the unfaithful ex. Gets the job done most of the time.

I recall my girlfriend Eileen making this statement in particular during junior high: “Why do we need men when we have our fingers to rely on!” Blunt but powerful. Masturbation is a completely normal thing among both men and women. Its just harder for women to admit.

And its hard to believe that till this day; even the closest of friends are still in denial.

I did myself a good deed upon graduating from Australia. Bought myself a vibrator to take back to my home country (Saving this for rainy days since adult toys were hard to come by then). Then, I did myself a selfless-deed and my good friend a favor – I gave her me precious vibrator. Mind you, this toy isn’t much to shout about. Just a simple plastic lady finger as they call it in Australia. Regardless, I’ve never seen my friend happier….

I’d like to regard the act of masturbation as one of the “Simple Pleasures in Life”.

And if one can’t admit to enjoying the good vibrations it brings, then you’ve got a problem. Another friend, Natasha has admitted to receiving a purple vibrator as a gift from a friend. However, she has difficulty self-confessing the use of this stimulating device. My dear friend even cleverly suggests recycling this as a gift – in light of overshadowing the slightest possibilities of assisted self-stimulation. It would have been nice to share the experience, especially since the picture of her new toy displayed on her blog looked rather fancy – it even has a remote!! (Puzzling as the vibrator was displayed without a box in contrary towards denial of its usage)

The female species are known to have a myriad of days: Fat days, Ugly days and yes, Horny Days included! Hence, a vibrator could have saved an emergency situation, avoided one-night stands or even sexual relapses with the unfaithful ex. Gets the job done most of the time.

Have a habit of carrying an umbrella in case of a rainy day?
It’d be wise to include a vibrator on standby for a horny day.

If I were Natasha, I’d be obsessing over my Japanese model. It’s a perfect excuse if you ever get stopped by the cops….

Your excuse: Hands FREE Abang, Hands Free!!!