Women sometimes get concerned about things which do not exist but how do you tell whether you are dating a mama’s boy? If your guy can afford to say no to his mother, he has a healthy relationship with his mother. Real guys make choices and decisions and are not afraid to have an intimate relationship with a girl.                 – Story by Francis K. Githinji -

We are all attracted to the wrong type of guys when it comes to dating. Many of these guys are actually mama’s boys who like being around women. They hurt you and you are puzzled why you are still hanging on to him. As a woman you are not ready to be treated as second best. You always want to be the best in the eyes of the man in your life. That is why dating a mama’s boy is such a pain. It isn’t a good idea if your boyfriend adores or worships his mother. You can get out of the relationship because sweet heart you are better than a doormat. You are a diva in the making and you can only realize that after getting over that chump of a man. Mama should always be loved and respected but it feels bad when she seems to control your life.

Why do you think a man becomes a mama’s boy? This is a situation which is mostly created by the mother. In most cases the mother is usually in need of male attention because as you might have noticed most mama’s boys are children to single mothers. The tight relationship between a mother and son makes them dependent on each other. They usually whine that they cannot move away from each other lest one of them falls apart. Practically speaking, if you are dating a mama’s boy you better know that your guy is in other words a pseudo-husband to the mother. Like any other man who is overwhelmed by responsibilities your boyfriend finds it hard to commit to another woman since his hands are full with his mother.

If you are reading this and wondering whether you are a mama’s boy, it is easy to tell. A healthy relationship with your mom is something we all want for proper growth but there are some other unhealthy attachments that turn your mom into a control flick. A guy might visit his mother every so often that you accuse him of being a mama’s boy. This might not be the case. You might visit your mom every other day and still maintain a healthy relationship with her. The quality of contact between a man and his mother is what is important. For instance if a mother buys a son underwear when he is 35 years old, he should set the boundaries and maintain respect by saying something like “Thanks mom for the gift but i am 35 years old.” On the other hand, the son might not talk to his mother so often but if you are dating a mama’s boy you will be shocked because he can’t make any decision without her approval.

Women sometimes get concerned about things which do not exist but how do you tell whether you are dating a mama’s boy? If your guy can afford to say no to his mother, he has a healthy relationship with his mother. Real guys make choices and decisions and are not afraid to have an intimate relationship with a girl. They are happy when their mother enjoys life on her own whether she has a spouse or not. If you detect that your guy still takes her laundry to mom and goes for meals there, you better run for your life.

Francis K. Githinji is an online dating expert. His latest project Dating A mama’s boy shows how the power of online dating can be harnessed internationally and with great success, or you could post your valued comments on his blog at Dating a Mama’s Boy. Article Source: Articlesphere.com

As with every satisfied ejaculation or a disappointed fuck, cigarettes never fail to fill in the minute silence of post ejaculation rest.

“Oh, baby, talk dirty to me!”

For a second I felt my inner thighs tensed up in shock, while he thrust his hardened penis into my wet vagina. Talk dirty, how? It was never discussed.

“Ohh….you..are… so hard.”

Those few words came out like a limp limb.

“Baby, fuck me harder.”

Shit, I might as well just kill myself. It just felt awkward.

“Louder bitch. Give it to me…c’mon.”

I rolled my eyes as he continued to thrust in and out. I could hear the clanging of his neighbour’s automated gates as it opened. The ticking of the clock at his bedside table…. Was it ever this loud?

‘Is this really…..my dearly beloved boyfriend? Two years we’ve been dating. I never knew this side of him.’ I thought to myself.

“Oh..yes…yes yes….” He moaned.

“Ahhh…yes….” I moaned. I was bored. It was finally over.

Clearly, the bonding connection between us disappeared the moment he asked me to talk dirty.

As if to show me his obvious frustration, he sighed heavily and murmured “I’m going out for a smoke. You go to sleep first, alright…. baby.”

Why do guys always do that? As with every satisfied ejaculation or a disappointed fuck, cigarettes never fail to fill in the minute silence of post ejaculation rest.

I’ve always felt a longing desire to come out of the boring doggy-style love-making sessions we’ve been having for the past one year. I wanted to be naughty, adventurous and creative with our sex positions. I could never do it with him. It’s unexplainable. I’ve asked myself a thousand times. Perhaps he’s had a longing desire too but we could never bring ourselves to talk openly about it.

He’s a great guy. Responsible and hard-working. The kind of guy I’d love to marry someday and grow old with. Sexual chemistry was just non-existent between us. I can’t be left high and dry for the rest of my life.

I’d rather shut up than to talk dirty to this man. I love him, I really do… but it’s time to end our relationship. Life’s too short to waste it on bad sex.

A lot of men shallowly thrive on the numbers, attempting in vain to out-do the ‘fictitious’ achievements of their peers. As incompetence is relatively unacceptable among the male gender, these specimens try very hard to live by the motto “the more the merrier”.

In today’s generation, sex is supposedly an open topic.

There was a time when talking about sex was very much a taboo.

Malaysian females in general still fear of being labelled. So yes, many of us do talk openly about sex but not self-admittingly.

Why? Again, the gender bias.

Men fuck around and TALK a whole lot of COCK about their bedroom achievements just as if they’d be awarded a trophy for every woman they successfully slept with.

Women on the other hand prefer to keep mum or just talk less. They’d likely be crowned a “slut” other wise. That is, if society got to know. However, how the hell would such info leak have happened if the female didn’t tell? Obviously someone wasn’t very good at kept HIS big mouth shut!

A lot of men shallowly thrive on the numbers, attempting in vain to out-do the ‘fictitious’ achievements of their peers. As incompetence is relatively unacceptable among the male gender, these specimens try very hard to live by the motto “the more the merrier”. Pressured to outnumber, many choose the “plus equation”. Commonly adding a bogus 3 to the actual figure.

Women prefer to keep low profile and tend to opt for the “minus equation”. See, 5 minus 3 equals 2. Sounds good?

Now what about 3 minus 3. Total = “Uh, I’m a virgin..”? Sounds ridiculous?

That is somewhat evident that in mathematics, men score better at addition and women at subtraction.

That’s just elementary maths. Rest assured that some overly-ambitious jokers who fancy double-digits are prone to exist, aptly known as advanced level cock talkers.

There is still much room for improvement. After all, Malaysia is a developing country. Who knows, maybe one fine day we’ll be as open as the Brits. There is a saying that goes, “If COCK can talk, then PUSSY can sing!!”. Now, how about that for a change!

Tampons are by far, one of the best creations by mankind, ever. Its about freedom of expression. Confidence. And no worrying about leaks. A girl can insert as many tampons as she wishes into her pussy in her lifetime without having to worry about being labelled a slut.

My girlfriend uses sanitary pads. Now, how stone-aged could that be? Be made aware that there are many obstinate women out there who still prefer their caves padded.

Top 10 Reasons to Date a Swimmer/Waterpolo Player

1. They like it wet.

2. They dive right in.

3. Love going fast.

4. Are used to wearing next to nothing in front a group of people.

5. Breastroke is favorite to many.

6. Others like it on their back.

7. They are experts at putting on rubber and can do it fast.

8. They know how to push it and work under HARD conditions.

9. They are firm believers that practice will make you better and will at any time, day or night.

10. Are used to doing things again and again till you can’t.

Backstrokers do it on their backs,

Breaststrokers do it underwater,

Flyers do it wit their hips,

IMers do it 4 ways,

Freestylers do it anyway they want,

Sprinters do it faster,

Distance swimmers last longer,

Divers do it deeper,

However you put it, swimmers do it better!

So, what happens to retired swimmers then…? muahahaa…

I always get really emo after watching One Tree Hill (OTH). There’s just so much soul in the characters, the script and the story. If I could write a book or a movie screen play, I would wanna write a story as meaningful as OTH. A story so beautiful that it would touch the lives of people who read or watch it. 

If I could write a story, I would wanna write about love.

Puppy love. The innocence of hope. The tenderness of the heart. The one hundred percent kindness in giving wholeheartedly.

Epic love. The courage to love. The willingness to take risk and make sacrifices. The commitment to promises made. Willingness to see the beauty in imperfections.

The unconditional love. Paternal love. Motherly instincts. Protective streaks.

I would write about lost. The pain of lost love. The pain from unexpected death. The regret of undoing. The sufferings of suffering. The hopelessness of forgotten hopes.

I would write about marriage. The poetry in the beauty of first moments. The hope of a new beginning. Patience and tolerance.

I would write about the myriad facades of life chapters, but I would begin with love.

Why do I wanna write about love? Because in the end, all that really matters, and the one thing that keeps us going, is… Love.

Days turned into weeks, weeks turned into months. And then, one not-so-very special day, I went to my typewriter, I sat down, and I wrote our story. A story about a time, a story about a place, a story about the people. But above all things, a story about love. A love that will live forever. The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.

- quoted from the movie Moulin Rouge -

 Him

Her

Him

Her

Him

Her

Her

Her

The irony: She complains that he’s taking up too much space. The house – is his.  

His solution: He controls the remote. Everything else, whatever!

The happy ending: She throws out his toiletries. They are now sharing. He gets to keep the mouthwash.

 Ah…life is beautiful, isn’t it? Makes you wonder sometimes…..

“Malaysians Doing It Better”, as published in The Star citing results from Durex’s ‘In the Bedroom’ Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey, with 62% respondents claiming to lead exciting sex lives and 4 out of 5 Malaysians have sex on a weekly basis.

But are we really doing it better?

Quality vs quantity Surprisingly, 74% of Malaysian respondents have sex weekly, which is higher than Thais at 65% and Singaporeans at 62%. Although 35% of respondents actually “do it” 3 times or more, 54% said thrice weekly is not enough. Either we are sex slaves or it’s just too many quickies, since Malaysians only spend an average of 19.9 minutes making love, which placed us on the top ten (6th place) in global ranking (more like out of the 26 countries surveyed) as the world’s fastest in love-making.

Where are we compared to them –> 78% of Nigerians are happy that their love lives are as exciting as they could be and 65% of Latin Americans claimed to have regular orgasm. Oral sex is the most common among Austrians at 80% while 68% of Thais are more likely to indulge in sexual materials to boost their libido. On average worldwide, it’s the 65 years old ++ age group who are most likely to achieve sexual satisfaction *gasp*

Bonding vs bondage 74% of Malaysians want more romance, followed by 66% who want better communication with partner and 64% want more fun. The survey also revealed that 45% confessed to having a thing for sexy underwear and 62% expect their partners to become more experimental in their love lives and are optimistic it will happen within 10 years. A whooping 72% of Malaysians felt that sexual aids should be sold in pharmacies.

sexylosers.com

“Millions of people feel unsatisfied with their sex lives. Whether it’s the frequency or lack of variety and excitement, they feel that their sexual wellbeing is suffering,” said Dr. Sari Locker, a sexuality and relationships educator.

Then again, out of the 26,000 online survey conducted, the results of the Malaysia segment is only the voice of 1,026 Malaysians.

What say the rest of us?